How do you celebrate life?

Celebrate storm n dance in the rain!!

Yes it looks pretty fancy to write but does it really work?? I have tried and failed more than like a hundred times, but yes I did never quit and each time I start over again it gets easier and interesting and satisfying than the previous attempt. Forcefully or being made to quit ,or just give up because of the fear of failure is a human nature by choice. In such circumstances take a deep breath and give a thought on the least of the creatures of Almight s creation,yeah think of the ants those who never give up, the most hard working ones,right from the helper ants,the soilders to the Queen each one works dedicatedly and never does it quit for once.Maybe we would think they don’t have to face the struggles in life as humans do, be it a work place or in family or schools or colleges anywhere , but have we thought of, every day carrying a load double to your size on ur shoulder and just preparing for the rest of your odd days of life..
Giving upon those who hurt you is easy, loosing patience is easy, argument is easy,abusing and violence is easy but what after that??What have we gained,what has it given to our crazy mind of that moment???
A hell lot of pain ,trouble , restlessness and guilt upto the gut!! So now how do you come out of it?? Booze and pass out???!!!!!
We humans are literally crazy at times (and most of the times)
Taming the inner you and knowing it’s extent is what helps you to deal with every storm-rain / spring-sunshine of life. To know the essence of your life whats most important is,knowing it’s purpose.I was absolutely unaware with mine till my late 20s and decided to go to the roots and know what I exactly wanted and have recently started working on it,(and I hope to post soon about it :))
Challenges are many yet taking the risk is what matters and makes it worth.
Every time we loose our calm when we feel people or things that we have been looking upon too much,doesn’t favour us and our mindset anymore, this upsets us. But isn’t that kinda crazy to always wish to win the side we are in?Always have a pleasing answer for self? Everyone existing in this world is different from one another be it a human or an animal , their needs-likes-dislikes keep varying.So it’s necessary to know the wild side of oneself so that you know your self limits.A racing and raging mind dosent settle down ever.Keep the beast within you tamed and calm knowing your vulnerability is what shall make you stride and march forth against the odds.How long shall you hide from the rain,how long shall you just wait for the storm to pass away,make your choice take risk ,just follow the tune and rhythms of life and see what life has for you in stores. Live to Love to Celebrate 

Quoting from the poem, the famous lines:

Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass…
It’s about learning to dance in the rain.
See that rainbow over my shoulder?
My cup runneth over
I don’t ask why
I say thank you
and I dance in the rain
“Life isn’t about waiting for the storm to pass…
It’s about learning to dance in the rain”
Vivian Greene

Let me know if I missed or would you like to add or suggest. After all only one human can help another😍😍😍 

U & Me ~£ove £ive Celebrate~


99+ Flaws to Love

Oh yes , this would perhaps remind you of Jay Z’ s 99 problems,well I really got my thoughts starting from it,but they just travelled to a different zone to ponder..

💞Cupid is round the corner again, perhaps he’ll fix a few right ones this time (again).Does having a day as to celebrate Valentine’sDay is really necessary?? Perhaps you’d say I don’t believe in such or maybe you’d say it’s like every other day,or for few it’s that one special day, thoughts vary . If you celebrate or live the rest of your 364 days as in love and as special as V-day then probably February 14th won’t be a matter.But for those , in relationships hustle n bustle -forget to appriciate each other’ s existence and hard works , trust me you need a day (atleast) to mend those flaws . It wouldn’t cost neither of the  couple much to take a seat back and love for a while .

Sometimes we just take everything for granted – some good relationships , some good favour,some unasked sweet gestures , some daily chores (that some one does for you) , some innocent smiles , an unknown helping hand ,some silent prayers,in someone’s silent thoughts and so on, many other things that happens to us daily and yet we aren’t aware of it or chose not to give importance. We easily find flaws and faults in everything and everyone around.Those flaws are basically our personal concept about anyone or anything.Just because it doesn’t fit to my personal perspectives is a flaw to my eye.Have you ever thought how would you feel when you are seen and analysed from someone else’s set frame??Alright it’s not about changing yourself for somebody else but just checking on self to the number of flaws you have before pointing on somebody else.Oh I am really bad on taking up NO ‘s !!! (ah yes I know some where deep down i may sound stubborn ) – but , lately When I was upset with few things that kept happening to me which didn t change (even after I took the spine to talk about it) I sat down thinking is it really that bad or is it my problem.I decided to take a intense look to my own flaws , darn!!! I did cross 50 n yes if I really went through it I am sure I ll cross 100.(can’t take all of it in one go!!)Yes we aren’t perfect in ourselves and that doesn’t mean we are of any less importance, only point being choosing to think before you point out someone else’s flaw,perhaps some things never change .. Relationship is all about accepting each other’s flaw and with time we cover for each other ‘s flaws.When you get upset of constant wrongs from your dear ones don’t chose to quit for they don’t change ,perhaps it’s just that one flaw and for which you would ruin the entire picture.Some habits- some errs,they just don’t change ( but if u believe in miracles ,don’t loose your hope ;)), not just in couples ,be in family, friends , workmates flaws are everywhere but what makes difference is embracing them, knowing that we arent’t too good either.Just try to go ahead of the flaw and see the beauty that lies beyond.If there is someone who has the power to change you, its just You..So love and live your life thats gonna end anytime to fullest with no room for regrets.Forgive Forget and move on.Thank and be grateful for what you have now and cherish moments.Above all love one another let nothing come between pure love and let the heavenly aura keep all binded together..


The Other Woman

Everyone has a good half and a not so good half that makes what you actually are,I wouldn’t say it’s the evil part of you ,perhaps it’s just that suppressed part of you that has got into aggression, denial , cheat , pain , flaws or oppressions / subjected to depression that was deeply buried and comes out over instances.Many are good at hiding and keeping the other half under control but as for few others it’s that weak point that shoots up at any simple trigger.

Why would one hide this or just carry along like a life long burden. Set it free and let go,choose to stay happy forgive forget n move on. Live life like never before. Embrace the beauty that your creator has for you in His store. Life is too short for worries . I choose my half that loves and inspires to live . The other woman inside me is free and happy now there’s no room for regrets , don’t think evil nor hurt any, just remember the purpose of your existence and thrive  , take that one huge leap and break all those bonds. As at the end its all about 🎼~Love Live Celebrate Life~ 🎶